30 Day Writing Challenge | Day 23

Day 23: Write a letter to someone, anyone.


Dear Future Husband,

How are you? Wonderful I hope. I haven’t met you yet, but I hope I do someday soon. Are you the prince charming I dreamt of as a child? Are you Matthew Gray Gubler? Probably not. That’s okay. I obviously love you anyway. Even though I don’t know you yet, I think of you often. I think of how my life could be. Will I still live here in Missouri? Is that where you are from? I don’t know anything about you yet. I don’t know what your sibling’s names are, or if you even have any. I don’t know what your favorite color is, or if you love chocolate as much as me. I don’t know how tall you are, but I do hope I managed to find someone taller than me, that would be lovely, but if you aren’t, that’s fine too. I obviously love you anyway. Do you like to read as much as I do? Do you love your family? Are you a cat person or a dog person? Did you let me have the nerdy wedding of my dreams? Was it the wedding of your dreams as well? I have so many questions for you, ones that I’m sure you have for me as well.

You know that Meghan Trainor song, “Dear Future Husband”? I hate that song. This letter will be nothing like that. I don’t have all these requirements for you or expectations of those sorts for you, but there are some things I hope you are able to do for me. I hope you’re faithful. I’ve seen what cheating can do to a family, and I don’t want to go through it. Please be a good man, though I’m sure you are, I mean, I married you, you must be good. I hope you’re understanding. You must be if you decided to settle down with me. There’s no way you could survive a relationship with me without being understanding. I hope you will treat me the way I should be treated, with kindness and respect, just as I will always do the same for you. I hope you’re a good father. I don’t know if we’ll have our own kids, or if we’ll adopt, but I hope you teach our children all the right things in life. I hope you’ll teach our sons to be good men, giving them the best example to follow. And I hope you’ll show our daughters just how they should be treated. And I hope together, we can instill the best values in our children, and show them all the love and kindness, and sometimes firmness, that we have to offer them. I hope we can teach them to live their lives without hate, and teach them that everyone deserves their best chance in life to be happy, regardless of race, gender, or sexuality; I hope we teach them that people are people, and love is love. I don’t expect you to treat me like a princess everyday of our lives, though that would be nice once in a while, everyone wants to feel special, but I do hope you always treat me like a human being. I hope you value the things I do in life, and I hope you love every part of me, the good and the bad, just as I will of you.

I hope you’re the kind of man that doesn’t base his love on my appearance. I hope you’ll love me no matter how big or small I am, and will support me through any changes that happen in my life, just as I will for you. I hope you’ll be there for me if I get sick, and will hold my hand through any hard times, just as I will for you.

There’s so much I want to say to you, to a man I’ve never met. But I suppose it all can be summed up in three words; I love you. I must do, if I’m marrying you. Do you love me too? Let’s hope so, because you’re stuck with me. I don’t want to be in the percentage of marriages that fail. I want mine to last. So any fights, any bumps in the road, any hardships, I hope we can always remember our love for one another, and that we can work through anything and everything. Love is hard work, but it’s worth it. I hope you let me name our children the names I’ve always wanted, I hope you let me pick the music in the car, I hope you give me foot rubs when I’m feeling upset because that always makes me feel better, I hope you hug me when I’m angry to calm me down, I hope you tell me when I’m acting crazy to help me see straight again, I hope we love each other unconditionally because that’s how it’s supposed to be.

When we’re old and gray, and our kids have moved on, I hope we still feel the same love for each other that we felt on our wedding day, more love if possible. I hope we grow old together. I hope I can make you happy.

I can’t wait to meet you someday, hopefully soon, I’m sure you will be everything I never knew I wanted in a man.


Your Future Wife

20 thoughts on “30 Day Writing Challenge | Day 23

      1. You will find it when you least expect it. Don’t look to hard he will find you.


  1. This is fantastic! You deserve every bit of this! Btw, I have two older brothers and I am 5′ 11” 😉 Haha, I kid. BUt I really do hope you find that guy who treats you the way you deserve! Maybe he is not where you live just like I kind of feel like my true love is not currently where I live.

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    1. Yeah, I’ve had the feeling that he may not be here as well. Who knows, maybe the next time I travel will be the time our paths cross! Haha well I’m actually 5’8 and a little bit more, so I’m fairly tall, which is definitely an insecurity of mine haha, So that’s why I’m always on the hunt for someone even slightly taller than me. 😉 haha.
      And thanks so much, I’m glad you liked it! 🙂


    1. a touch of manhattan transfer moi? it’s gofeatr,nsodr is very good-quand les carottes sont Kuyt (offside)on ajoute un Vent de Persil (guitou)-Ze frenchmen know only about ze food.


  2. What a lovely letter indeed! Your words show that you deserve a sweet husband. My prayer for you: may God give you the best husband you can ever have; the husband of these lovely dreams!


  3. One afternoon in the future, when you and your husband are already together, he’d be reading this, thinking how he’s the exact opposite of what he should have been – thinking how you’re the exact opposite of what he once wanted – and thinking at last, with a smile in his face, how fortunately unfortunate that you both end up with each other.

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  4. Hello! I know it has been quite a while, but thank you for taking the time to read my blog. I finally had free time, so I’m visiting all the blogs that have visited me! I love this post, and I especially loved that you didn’t ask for anything that you weren’t willing to give. I know you will find him, because he’s definitely out there. Thanks again, and have a great day!


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